Showing posts with label Abigail's Hair. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Abigail's Hair. Show all posts

8.24.2016

Abigail's Hair This Week


This is Abigail's hairstyle for this week:







Yes, her styles can last a WEEK now.  Not just a day or two, or even three.  A whole week!  This is HUGE!  I don't know if it is that her hair is getting longer (it is 8.5 inches stretched at the crown), I am putting in styles in smaller sections and that are more protective, or if she is easier on them.  I think it is the first two...because it is NOT the last one!



It took me right at 2 hours to complete this style before church on Sunday morning.  (I am beyond thrilled that I am getting quicker and neater with cornrows.)  


But getting her ready started the day before - Saturday afternoon.  We spent about an hour taking out her previous style, 20 minutes shampooing and conditioning it, 30 minutes of her letting the deep conditioner sit on her hair (she had plastic wrap and a towel covering it)...and then I spent about 45 minutes doing the LOC method and banding it into 5 sections (already parted for this style I knew I'd be doing the next morning).





I have (finally!) begun faithfully updating the "Hair Gallery" post that is on the ride side-bar of the blog.  I want to be able to compile all of Abigail's hairstyles in one spot.  


I don't want to come across as boasting about her hair.  But, well...I **am** so proud that I can do her hair now.  There are few things I have worked so hard at in my life.  I have purchased multiple books, follow multiple blogs, belong to multiple hair/skin care groups on yahoo and FB, and have watched HOURS (and hours) of videos on YouTube.  I have learned much good and helpful information.  And I have learned (the hard way) many things I should never do again. I have cried literal tears of frustration/worry about her hair (when she was about 6-9 months and needing more done to it and I was just starting to understand all I needed to know).  I was so worried that I wouldn't do right by her, and then wouldn't be able to pass along to her the knowledge she'll need to care for and style her own hair.  I have worked long and hard to get us where we are and the fact that I am not embarrassed for black women to see her hairstyles now?  Still amazes me.    

There is still so much for me to learn/practice...but I see the light at the end of the tunnel now.





7.25.2016

Miscellany Monday - July 25, 2016

I'm feeling the need to dump some pictures off my phone and camera.  

These make my heart smile.


Sometimes...when you live in the deep south where the heat index has been (way) over 100 degrees....


...you do your chicken chores dressed like this....



...and then you go jump in the pool!



As Noah worked on some school work on the computer back in our master bedroom, he heard a big thud.  This is what ran into our window:





It apparently was ok (thankfully)...it flew off after a couple of minutes.


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Thankfully this happened on Saturday, which meant that daddy was here:


He doesn't look too upset in that first one, does he?


Well, it didn't last long.





I so wish I had taken an "after" photo, when he was smiling big again.  

It took Jas approximately 2 seconds to pop my big vase off G's arm...which only confirms my conviction that Jas can do anything.  And do it well.



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You can always tell when Noah was in charge of getting the two youngest dressed for the day:



He loves those babies something fierce!



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We had a Family Fellowship Supper at church last night.  So much fun!  The church provides meat and drinks, we all bring sides/salads/desserts.  


Elisabeth brought these yummy sweets that have become a go-to recipe lately:




These little gems only have four ingredients.

FOUR!

Banana, peanut butter, cocoa, honey


And then sometimes we add walnuts to the top, so that would be five.

HERE is the recipe for FUDGY MUFFINS.





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This is what A's hair currently looks like....



...and I personally think it is so cute!




These are box braids.  I haven't counted, but I would guess 25-35 of them.  It took me 4 hours total (divided over 3 different sessions).  I decided not to put beads on the ends and just twirl the ends (they hold because her hair is so curly).  The beads weigh her braids down and keep them hanging down straight, so I knew these wouldn't hang down exactly straight, and that it would be ok.  

Now...to see how long they last.  4 hours work that lasts a week is o.k.  4 hours work that only lasts a few days would NOT be o.k.




6.27.2016

Beach Trip - 2016

We're settling back in after our annual trip to the beach.



We are so thankful that we get to use this time-share condo of my parents every year.  We stay in the exact same unit every year.  The kiddos always have so much fun counting: This was E and N's 10th year going, D's 9th year, LK's 7th year, G's 5th year, and A's 2nd year.

This place holds such precious memories through the years.  Birthdays, adoption days, every Father's Day for the past 10 years...and this is where we were when we first got the call about Abigail two years ago!

Everyone else in all the other 23 units is there every year also.  It is neat seeing all the same faces and seeing how everyone's children have grown and changed.  Our kiddos had a big time playing soccer/catch/hide-and-seek/find-the-snake (3-4ft long!  But thankfully it was not poisonous).  Their favorite buddies this year: Brent, Joel, Caleb, Molly, Page, Peyton, JB, and Abigail (a precious girl who was also adopted from China).

Last year at the beach it was us, my parents, and my brother and his family.  But Jeff recently changed jobs so they couldn't come this year - phooey.  We were so glad to have Lao Lao and Papa there, though.  The kiddos were back and forth (and back and forth) between our condo and theirs all the time...day and night.  At home, we live only about 5 miles apart...but the kiddos wish we lived this close all the time!


This is the view from our balcony:

But this is what my view usually looks like:


I spend all of rest-time out here every day (1.5 hr)...and when I wake up before everyone else I sneak out here to do my quiet time.  


Gabriel is old enough now to remember our annual beach trip and how much fun it is...and he was so looking forward to this trip this year.  He made big plans to bring his "mighty machines"...and he remembered and packed them himself:




He was just a little pleased with himself:


(It seems like 100 years ago that he took his first trip here...but it was just four years ago.)




LK still is not crazy about the beach.  The pool?  Yes.  Playing with the other kids in "the field"?  Definitely.  But not out on the sand and in the waves.  Not her cup of tea.  But she does a (pretty ) good job of not complaining, and waiting patiently until it is time to go back up to the pool.  This is the only solo shot I got of her on the (dreaded) beach:




The other three "bigs" still love getting out in the ocean!






We were just glad we were finally able to get out in the water.  The first few days we were at the beach there were horrible rip currents.  The alerts (which you KNOW Noah stayed on top of) actually labeled them "life threatening."  So, yeah...we stayed in real shallow the first few days.  



The last few days, thankfully, were clear and the kiddos had a ball!





Papa and the kiddos on the lookout for waves coming in. 





















And the big kids totally inspired Abigail.  She had to get out there also:










Thankfully Daddy was happy to help her:






I put 35 box braids in A's hair (with three pink/clear beads on the bottom of each) and hoped they would last the whole week. (In fact, I banked on it so much that I did not bring any of her hair stuff to re-do her hair.  Brave?  Stupid?  Yes.)  When we were out on the beach, I had her wear a hat to keep sand out...and the style held up really well.  Win!



But the majority of our time on the beach was spent digging in the sand:



I should have gotten pics of some of the glorious, big creations that all 8 of us dug.


One thing Jas and I dug together?  A mini pool for the two youngest:




I saw this on Pinterest and FB right before our trip.  I just bought a shower liner, and we had to dig a little, and haul a little bit of water.  Totally worth it...they enjoyed it!


















We also made our annual trek to the bowling alley down the road...the kiddos look so forward to this!  It is so funny:  We don't ever go bowling the rest of the year...but this is now a non-negotiable part of our beach trip.


Abigail bowled her first game ever, with a little bit of human - and non-human - help:
Look at her little size 10 Toddler bowling shoes!!




Our other bowling partners-in-crime: My parents and Aunt Sheila and her friend, Bill:





Jas came back to beat me by one point in the last frame.  I wish I took a picture of the scoreboard!



Not until I was downloading pictures did I realize that this is the only picture we have of all 8 of us.  boo-hiss

Another boo-hiss: We only took pictures with our phones this year (it is a pain to drag the DSLR around on the beach, and I always get sand in it.)  But the pictures are so much better with a DSLR.  I just need to suck it up and drag....more carefully.





Elisabeth left the beach a couple days early this year (I'll write more on that later...suffice it to say that I do NOT like my babies growing up!)....so she missed our trip to Toys 'R Us (my "deprived" kiddos have only been in one of these a few times, and think they are the greatest!)...and to wings for lunch:





The other off-beach thing we did together was to see Finding Dory.  (We hardly ever go see movies at home - maybe once a year - but this has become an annual tradition also.)



This was A's first time in a movie theater.  She and G and did sooo good sitting and watching the movie.    And it is so cute to now hear Abigail spotting "Dowy" everywhere!




We hated to leave at the end of the week...and yet, we were so glad to get back home.  Funny how that works.

Bye-bye, Beach...until next year!



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